Deciding is part of daily life, deciding is also part of HOW we live, WHERE we live and WHAT and WHO we want to be, now and in the future. It´s all included in our Decision-Making.
Deciding is connected to our awareness.
We can only change where and how we live if we notice it´s not okay for us anymore. We can only change the role we mostly play in life once we are aware of this role and after reflecting, we can decide either to keep the role or to change the role.
If life offers us an ad hoc role, we can quickly decide to take and play it or – not. If we decide to agree we´re bond to a game with no script. If we deny we go-on choosing our own direction and the fav´ roles we want to play. That gives us the chance to write our own script w/ matching lines. This is how you gather new experience! By doing it yourself, avoiding simply “guessing” what to do next! If we decide, we´re quite informed. It´s called informed decision-making.
What is King of Decision-Making?
KING of deciding is
a LIST you work off
being FLEXIBLE and spontaneous!
It´s WHAT DRIVES our decision-making and this should not be our short-term emotions (!)
Things which aren´t in our mind yet seldom have a chance to be seen and accepted as a “to do”, as A DRIVER which leads us to a (fast) decision. If we like something and put it on hold, for later in life, then it becomes THE DRIVER which leads us to quick decision making! Ever noticed? Think about it next time you drive your car. YOU are the DRIVER!
Therefore a plan is always good to make and have, in your hands or in the drawer.
As soon as you can tick-off some items you´ve done or reached, write some new items to it!! That´s a permanent DRIVER! Be driven by your own choices, write your own script. Make your own decisions in life! It´s what keeps you happy long-termly.
BE A DECISION MAKER. BECOME OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect