When you notice that you´re the next in line while things start to go wrong you should consider to immediately stop the running DOMINO-effect with …. your next decision.
What do I talk about? This past week I was wondering why many people avoid making decisions while some only act on decision making. I thought about the difference of both groups and how their lives potentially are designed that both works ?!
I came to this conclusion:
people who only act after a running system which doesn´t ask for any decision making but only follow its structure and service are not forced to make decisions. If you live in a service-structured country – for example – and things suddenly go wrong you go and ask what to do or where to go next. That means there will be a solution for your problem! People you ask (i.e. from Government) will give you THE answer and you can go back home and be relieved for a while. If a certain service structure takes care of your life and your challenges, you don´t have to make your own decisions. Someone else does. Your role is passive. Do you agree?
Now there are people among us who don´t want or who can´t live by an offered service, instead they want their own path. What they need to walk on is making their own decisions because as soon as there is a new challenge they can´t go ANYWHERE to ask what to do next or how to handle it. They handle it on their own, actively! They make step-by-step decisions. No available service asks you for acting decisive.
Now let me go back to the DOMINO effect –
If you belong to the group who live IN THE SYSTEM and something goes wrong in this running system – suddenly – you might be affected by a sudden Domino effect, because in a running system YOU ARE THE NEXT IN LINE! In a positive way either as in a negative way….
Right in this moment when things go wrong, you are forced to make decisions to turn away from being the next in line who falls! This is a reason why everyone should be able to make good decisions in their life. There is a solution to stop the Domino effect in a running system!
You may think about it ….
BE A DECISION MAKER. BE OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect –