In my latest video-clips (YouTube) I give you an idea of how you can walk your own path in life. By simply deciding. It´s the path of struggle because you actively think and work on your path. By walking your talk & wishes you set and follow your own direction.
This is not easy!
There is no director for none of us, okay – maybe for some for a few years or situations, but in reality it´s about us and our plans. Sometimes your plans collide with the plan(s) of someone else. That´s when the struggle starts!
Here´s a little secret: it´s the importance of each plan which becomes the positively pushing motivator which is the trigger to get ahead…. do you remember?
If you don´t have a plan and you don´t need nor you want to decide in life about any direction,
2 things are going to happen to you:
- mainly, others are going to rule your life
- the only hope that is left for you, if things aren´t developing the way you hoped for, is waiting for the coincidence! The little piece of LUCK so many people wait for. This little piece of luck which might appear one day to open the special door – but for many of us THIS rarely happens
To repeat what I listed above:
either other peoples decisions rule your life completely (1) or you sit and wait for the rescuing coincidence (2) in hope it brings THE plot into your life-plan (life movie).
The point is that many people hope for various plots in their life and maybe 1 plot finally clicks into your plan but it probably won´t bring that much change. As a consequence, happiness is going to run away from your life.
…..do you remember?
Deciding means to turn into a certain direction and to leave other things behind, for good.
Deciding means leaving.
Deciding means arriving.
Deciding is timing.
Deciding is the essence of strategy.
Deciding is moving ahead, while getting older.
Looking back today, many decisions in my life still make me smile and some, sometimes made me cry in the past. But there are lessons to learn and that´s the sunny side of our decision making. So far, I´ve reached many things in life, many plans came true – mostly, because I had a plan, I talked about it and actively made a decision when it was time to, without hesitation.
There is another secret about deciding and that´s your communication! If you have a plan you need to talk about it. You need to set it free, even if you talk to yourself, loud.
Often it´s necessary that others get to hear your plan. Talking about it is not about a direct help nor about a potential risk of sabotage, no. It´s important to set the vocal waves of your voice with its special frequency out in the world.
Set it free!
Only freedom boosts growth!
As a security, to not risk any sabotage you may say not too much about it, thou´ ….. however you feel about what´s right or wrong for your plan, everyone has a (gut) feeling and we all work with it.
Deciding is leaving. Deciding is arriving.
Did you arrive?
BE A DECISION MAKER. BECOME OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect