Decision Making is a powerful key for the huge LOCK in the door of Dictatorship!
…..did you know?
I was raised to be my own boss, to rely on myself and to be self-confident. SELF was the magic word. Learn everything to be informed. In my life, I was never really locked to dictatorship thou´ somebody in my family prefered that special communication style of a dictator very much. But I had different dreams and didn´t pay attention to it.
I was locked to something else and it was no person. Over a long period of time, I learned that decision making is the (low priced) favorable key to freedom. Lessons learned: once you know how to get free, you know how to turn away from ANY kind of dictatorship!
WHAT is dictatorship and why does it trouble us?
Dictatorship is a violence method or instrument. Its basic is power. Dictatorship is very good during any time of need, in state of emergency. Fact. It is also a method of the defence of freedom, because you demand advantage or benefit. Dictatorship is being used in extreme danger or risk.
What is behind the scene of dictatorship during time of extreme danger? One answer is: unlimited authorization. Power is: A) Capital and B) Knowledge.
In politics, business and affairs are regulated through binding or mandatory decisions. Decision making is ruled by the decision-making process, the basic is: forming (your) will.
So, what about YOU in this scenario of dictatorship?
If you grew-up in a running family without any social disruption or permanent trouble, you might have experienced dictatorship as a child and teenager – once in a while when things turned dangerous – from your parents. Probably, simply to keep you safe! Best case – worst case: to demonstrate power, over you and your “free will”.
At least, we all turn into adults and you learn to make your own decisions, and that´s when it comes to part from any kind of dictatorship in your life!! Remember? Starting with decision making in life, you start testing your will power and you also split from being locked/linked to somebody who still makes decisions FOR you.
The thing is, if someone is making decisions FOR YOU, it is mostly not your will which leads you but it´s the will of someone else. Quite often, the goals are different or even opposite from yours and the dream which is sold to you, is not your own dream. To get away from this, you need a key, a method to free you from those chains.
Will you ever reach what you want in life? NO.
Will you ever be motivated? No.
If this speaks to you, it´s time to part and split from the current dictatorship in life and start making your own decisions. You could split from family, physically, and move somewhere else to keep in touch but start your own life. You could split from the company and boss you work for since years and find a new job. You could finally split from your spouse or partner, stay single for a while to make your own decisions.
Decision Making is a great method to get away from dictatorship – from situations where things don´t develop nor run into YOUR direction but into the direction of somenone else. If this other direction demotivates you – get away from it.
Ever thought about it? Then start thinking about decision making as a great method to free yourself from dictatorship. Lead yourself into your future, try it – try it now.
BE A DECISION MAKER. BECOME OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect