QUESTION: do you remember when you´ve been really HAPPY lately?
And no, I don´t mean the nice sitution when you received a gift or won the lottery (!) – no, I mean the kind of happiness you´ve experienced after reaching a goal or after moving a mountain! This happiness relaxes you and invites you to simply lean back and put your feet on the table. Where are your feet right now?
So, do you remember? It´s the decisions in your life, the choices you make, which bring happiness to your life! Do you agree? Every choice asks us for a compromise or a loss in exchange for something else. If you decided well, then you are prepared of the losses and compromises you soon meet. Welcome those changes!
They´re part of your thought through decision. They´re also called “the price we pay” for a decision result. Here´s the secret:
if the gain is higher than the little losses, you´re a winner and that brings happiness to your life!
If you have to remember when you´ve been really happy in the past, then think about your decisions! What were they about? Small gains?
Small goals but many and, reachable? Yes, that makes us all happy. If you´re involved in reaching a huge goal, add small goals to it which keeps the happiness and the motivation (!) alive.
If you often get frustrated in life, then you probably frustrate yourselves. Eitherway something was absolutely unreachble or simply a really bad choice.
This is why I write about decision making: your choice is up to you! BTW, decision making avoids blaming others which keeps you focused on the path to reach the next goal. That´s part of reaching personal happiness, your happiness!
Are you happy?
BE A DECISION MAKER. BE OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect