Deciding, as discussed in my last BLog-posts, has to do with freedom. It´s an expression of your soul, your wishes, your will, your plan and your motivation. If you decide for something new, you decide to let go of something else, often of something you don´t need (or want) anymore.
Deciding is the 1st step to personal freedom! It leaves a certain past behind because you can´t take it all with you. We get rid of load.
On the other side, you link yourself to something new, something which supports your freedom. If this step is “wrong”, it´ll chain you in the end – if it´s the right decision, it keeps you free and motivated!
Freedom allows you to move (!)
Which kind if freedom is meant?
There are 2 roads you can travel, when you are deep into the decision-making mode!
Turn LEFT (just as an example!):
–>> your educational path
This path puts you forward to meet certain people, certain companies and certain businesses with whom and with which you´ll deal for some years of your life. Many of us like you, have to find out WHO you are until you find the right” area” or spot in life where you belong (best).
You know you´re living and working at the right place when you easily make friends and when people reach out to connect with you. When socializing is fun and positive, you arrived.
Turn RIGHT (just as an example!):
–>> your cultural and role path when moving into a new city or a foreign country
Apart from the education which you might start in a new country or city, you decide for a different culture first. If you´re open for news things, like I am, you go out into the world first. This is a direct step of freedom! You leave your childhood behind. During this self-experiment, you get to know yourself better and faster than you would have experienced yourself in your home town. I bet, turning “RIGHT” helps playing your adult-role faster than you´d start while staying home. It´s a booster!
This is why making decisions helps you gain personal freedom! You learn a lot during both life-experiences and people with extra life-experience faster grow into adulthood. Decision-making speeds your life & your career!
BE A DECISION MAKER. BE OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect