You know, your decisions are the best method of self-Leadership and of leading others!
With decisions and a certain action, you can solve conflicts real fast and you can also trigger a “plot”, which is a new direction. This is a technique you sure remember from script writers and the movie makers, when a movie scene suddenly changes direction and everthing starts new.
It´s a method for wowing and confusing the viewer –
A Plot mostly is connected to emotions which take over the part of our rational decision making. That´s often the human trigger for changing a direction in life – your emotions drive you real fast. Remember such a scene? It gets bad when it´s triggered to sudden loss or embarassing situations. Nobody likes sudden losses or embarassment in life.
Once you´re trained through unnessary losses by emotions and unattractive decision making in life, you will slowly start thinking rational first, when it comes to decision making. You will stop and think! Remember such a situation? Reflect for a moment.
Let´s stay on this stage of working with plots as a script writer and being the director of the play:
the person who is the director is the decision maker!! Reflect again – are you always the director?
The director decides how and when the plot shall be implemented, how the next twist shall be played in the next scene. A new action within the running scene or a running direction must appear when a significant change shall provoke the twist of fate! It´s mostly generated by the director, right?
But what if you become a victim of a stranger, a sudden director who takes over the lead in your life without …. telling you first? What if somebody suddenly makes decisions for you? It´s like a throw-back into childhood when you were a kid. So, what if you notice this real fast and you don´t want this sudden change? What do you decide?
To take back the lead and to become the director again, you need an unerring OR a virtue led strong “will power”! With a strong will power you can easily change the sudden plot for a turn so it becomes a merit for YOUR life again. Will power helps ignoring an interfering potential director and it helps killing this new dangerous action. If you have to interfere into an unwillingly action you need to make fast decisions!
Will power is pure rational thinking – it´s being fully awake and controlling your emotions. Controlling your emotions is part of a positive attitude! Being positive is basis of being your own director!
Only this kills sudden conflicts and helps walking into YOUR direction, again.
You won´t allow anybody to become the director with sudden plots in your personal movie when you are a strong decision maker with will power.
BE A DECISION MAKER. BECOME OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect