Something happens without an obvious cause and this new chance or even result supports a potential positive action of yours! Suddenly, YOU DID IT.
Do you remember?
Do you remember that you decided to do something, simply by the motivation of a coincidence? Do you remember that exactly THIS coincidence triggered you to take a decision which you avoided for a long time ….. because, nobody encouraged you to do it ?
I am sure you remember this ad hoc action you took! Coincidence – the incident that causes a plot in your life. Wasn´t it the thought of: “okay, NOW I´ll do it!” And then you made a decision and you took over some necessary action.
….. well, that´s part of decision making, folks!
What did you decide !? !?
Was it a buying decision? Was it a vacation-destination decision you took? Was it finally a new job career? Did you separate from your partner? Did you decide to marry, maybe again? Did you talk to a stranger you always wanted to meet personally but you did shy away several times you met? Did you adopt a child? Did you start learning another language, because of this coincidence? Let us know and leave a comment below –
It´s not always friends and family who lead you through life, sometimes it´s coincidence. A coincident seems to allow us to do something, right? It´s an agreement sent by the universe. Fact is, that we need a strong motivation when it comes to a tough decision and that a strong trigger needs to kick our ass, to get up and DO IT!
That´s when the coincidence becomes an event with a strong meaning to your life. Sometimes in life, a coincidence delivers a trustful feeling about, actually something very new. If you reflect such decisions of yours today, say: do you notice now that Leadership was involved? YES – exactly.
If you need someone who opens a door and this door-opener suddenly is a great coincidence, then we allow an unexpected form of Leadership to step into our life and change the situation. It´s no person, it´s nobody who wants or asks us to do something, no – it´s an event which becomes the Leader of the situation. Isn´t it great how open we are for spontaneous decisions, when a coincident appears?
Well, yes – the other side of the story is that you cannot book such a coincidence. You can´t order it from the waiter or waitress in the restaurant around the corner. And it´s not even “luck” – it´s something that appears suddenly to make us move – therefore be honest: coincidence is a silent leader.
Sometimes – just for us.
BE A DECISION MAKER. BECOME OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect