You make decisions about your career.
You make decisions about your (private) relationships.
You make decisions about your health.
The Government won´t tell you which career to take. Your eduaction and talents will guide you, led by the inner voice which is the loudest. The Government won´t advise with whom you make friends and who will enter your circle of influence. The Government won´t even give a guess about your next health status!
It´s ALL up to you, to me, to them …. and to the decisions you and me take.
You are the driver in the car on the street of the Governments´ system. The streets lead you to the companies you will work for or to the one you will start building up. It´s all an analogy to your education and talent which “streets” you are going to take. You decide which company you try first. Next, it´s up to the people inside the company with whom you get in touch and who will support or block you. Fate puts you by your education into this department. You can´t tell upfront! You can´t decide on your own. You can drive your fate only in a certain rough direction but not on a fix position! Not in the beginning. Not without a fix point.
The first fix point is the “boss” who takes you in. She/he will have a feeling whether you match her/his team or not. Fate isn´t really fate. Fate is experience mixed with choosing “half blindly”.
“Half blindly” means it depends on whether you´re a taker-, matcher- or giver-type of personality which leads you to HOW and how long you will survive in a company or when running a company as CEO, HOW your team(s) will adjust and survive due to your personality style, and theirs.
Please note that takers are middle class (!). They might be quite “many” but they´re not on top.
And whether you stay healthy or receive an illness might depend upon the work load you get and the lack of support you might suffer. And it might turn to fate if you take it all without any discussion. If you decide you won´t overload yourself to stay healthy and quite happy, you will make the decision to talk about it. That´s not fate. That´s a decision. And this decision leads to action. To a conversation.
All three parts from above are related with one another! The career leads to your relationships and to your health status. The process starts with the career! That´s the first fix point of your own fate before you run ahead, armed with the aim to win…..
BE A DECISION MAKER. BECOME OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect –