….. describes the lack of ability to judge what´s good for you, due to past experience.
That´s the short version!
Let me give you some more information with 2 examples:
if you have trouble making decisions when being in a restaurant, not able to choose from the menu, you lack the direct connection to your body.
If you have trouble making decisions which job to choose for the apprenticeship (rather working as a clerk in a hotel or become a tailor?), you lack the direct connection to your body.
What´s missing inside?
When you have trouble making the ideal decision with a result that matches best to you, you lack the perception of your somatic markers in your body.
It´s the own authority to get access to your life experiences which normally help evaluating what was good and what was bad for you.
Actually, if you belong to this group you have a big deficit which is vital for your life! You have to train it, which is the good news because: it´s trainable! Right now, it could be your current deficient ability or skill.
It´s a problem of perception and unfortunately it also belongs to the trouble of an eating disorder. It also belongs to the problem of all people who work in the wrong job and wrong environment.
At the beginning of their life they made a bad (or un-informed) decision because they couldn´t decide very well at all.
Check it out: if you sleep bad or if you suffer permanent light health issues, this could also be a cause…..
I have to stop this blog-post right here but I wanted to include this issue to my decision topic, because decision making has a lot of influence to our life!
And I am sure many people don´t realize it. If you´re interested whether you belong to this group of deciders or not, feel free to contact me! I´d be honored to send you the test with the 5 different results. As a maximum.
In my next post I step over to the next decision type – the “Fast Decider” !!
BE A DECISION MAKER. BE OUTSTANDING.
rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect –