No, I didn´t read anything YET about this topic and the interconnection I am now writing about, I simply assume there is a basic connection.
Personalities turn out to be “giver types”: people who share information with their daily environment, and who offer information to strangers. They are collaboratively “programmed” and enjoy “giving”. It fulfills them to spread info and make their environment “run” better and faster and more qualitative. Givers act independent minded if they don´t try to bind and bond other people to their free info-giving habit.
Other personalities turn out to be “taker types”: people who take all they want and all they can get to reach their goals and dreams. They know there´s nobody who comes and hands them their dreams as some of their parents maybe did. Childhood time runs out due to a date of expiry, latest once we turn into adults. But there is difference when they take the education or available job they want from a running system and pay for it to become the personality they want to be, or whether they take things away from others just to block them.
And the third piece of this cake are the “matcher types”: people who count exactly every piece and penny before they “pay forward or pay back” 1:1. They concentrate to match exactly what they got and what they gave to others. The good thing is that matchers don´t tend to block off others to give them a hard time, and they are generally willing to give. They respond!
Now imagine how these personalities behave with their values! And which values do they own? Let me guess a little…..
Dishonest givers may give wrong information, but – do they really do it? Are dishonest people givers at all? If givers offer correct information they turn into very influential personalities. Conscious acting takers might be able to block off certain people who they know well enough to do so. Are they honest? Or egoistic? Are takers even able to collaborate with others? Do they act differently on different stages or are they the same person everywhere? Takers may wake up givers and be their warning to reduce their generosity. Do matchers love freedom once they connect with others to permanently give and take? They seem to be good collaborators and very reliable!
With this post I planned to shake and wake your environment awareness! With whom do you deal? Which personality is around you? And who are you – on your stage?
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rita jaskolla – Leadership Architect –